Cosmetic surgery while on vacation with your child?

During the first 6 weeks of summer, my hubby's ex-wife has custody of our oldest daughter. She is allowed to take her out of the country for up to 2 weeks during that time per the custody agreement. She is Peruvian and has family there that our daughter sees every 5 years or so. This summer while they are visiting the mother plans on reversing a few cosmetic procedures she had done. My husband and I feel that this is ridiculous because with any surgery there is a risk factor. What if something happened to her? What if the surgery went wrong? Or even if it went fine but she needs a few days of recovery? Our daughter doesn't speak any Spanish at all and does not know her Peruvian relatives very well.


They currently have on open case on file and will be going before the judge soon. She did not show up for their mandatory mediation. Should my husband bring this up to the judge at their final hearing?

Cosmetic surgery while on vacation with your child?
I would say he only needs to bring it up to the court if he and his ex cannot work the situation out themselves. It is time consuming and expensive to bring the court in if there is no need for it. He needs to make his concerns known to his ex, and if she doesn't understand or refuses to listen to his concern, THEN bring it up in the hearing.
Reply:i would bring it up because her mother needs to care for her and she will be unable while recovering from reversal surgeries. if she wants surgery done, she should do it on her own time, not child time!
Reply:absolutely bring it up... to have your child staying in another country with relatives you nor she knows very well could be a dangerous situation.. if something does happen to mom, you might not be able to find your daughter cause she is with ppl you dont know.. i would not allow this... if she wants to have some kind of surgery done, she needs to do it on her own time, not time she is supposed to be spending watching her daughter... this could be very bad...
Reply:Yes most definately, this woman can't possibly look after your daughter to the best of her ability if she is in hospital. This is supposed to be quality time with her mother.She should be doing this on her own time. Some people are so selfish
Reply:Yes, tell the judge. Or why does your daughter have to go? Can't she just not go for this one time??? Maybe it can be rearranged with her mom.
Reply:OOH I would so tell your attorney..she needs to plan that before or after the child comes to be with her...man she is stupid and selfish!